I’m not usually inclined to attend these events voluntarily, and then, if and when I actually show up, I’m not the type of person to approach people I don’t know, especially if I sense I’m an outsider looking in on an already established inner circle.But I have to remind myself that first base usually ends with the butterflies-in-your-tummy feeling of excitement that accompanies a new relationship and the giddy teenager thoughts that, “She could be THE ONE.” Second Base A Mil Spouse friendship hits second base when you schedule an outting that involves either your significant others for a double date or the kids for buffers in case you discover that first base is the best it’s ever gonna get.Whatever the reason, we’ve got something unique going on, something our non-military related friends just don’t get. But it seems that whenever I write about the awesomeness that is the Mil Spouse friendship, there’s always someone wondering where all those friends are hiding, someone lonely for that perfect companion, someone who puts herself out there but has yet to find that Mrs. Just as we all have stories about the beginning dating stages with our spouses, we also have stories of our first dates with friends.So here is my version of dating for Mil Spouses: First Base First base is a military-related function, either through your servicemember or a service offered through your local installation. Or a Fourth of July picnic for your spouse’s new command.There’s nothing like bonding over jet lag and culture shock.
It was getting serious with one of my Tinder matches.He would later find out that this succubus had undiagnosed borderline personality disorder, which explained the acid she spewed on his life. Six months into our friendship, I was diagnosed with borderline.Borderline personality disorder (BPD) is perhaps the most dreaded diagnosis a psych patient can get.You're so nice, and I don't want to lead you on in any way.So if that's an issue, we should probably just call it now."We did; he never responded.