From your question, I can tell that you two were together in the past.
There was a period during which you two broke up, and now you are back together.
Since we have dated for almost two years, I asked him to cancel his online dating account. I told him it was upsetting and we had a little verbal disagreement. But your relationship does suggest a level of patience and tolerance that far exceeds the norm. Imagine a company that lets its CEO cook the books and embezzle from them because he’s a smart, charismatic guy.
After another social event that I attended with girlfriends, I found that he had done the same thing again. –Barb A man who is openly defying his two-year girlfriend to stay active on Match. The shareholders would have every right to demand an ouster. I do hate to be the one to burst your bubble, Barb.
You meet someone awesome; start dating, and then suddenly you realize they still have an active online dating profile.
And sometimes it’s not from snooping or being devious; sometimes it just happens. Here are a few examples of how/when it can happen and how to handle it like a rational human being.
This scenario can be really tricky, but no matter what you do avoid looking like you were snooping for information. You’ll start looking for clues on what this person could be hiding and then you’ll be the crazy lady hiding behind trees and lurking near wherever he or she goes.
Or you’ll just chalk it up to this person being a jerk that mislead you or is sneaking around behind your back.
If it's not a passive-aggressive way of telling me we have broken up, what is it?It’s perfectly normal for people to still be active on a dating site before you’ve made things official.So, if by some chance you notice, there probably isn’t a reason to worry or have a talk about it.The primary reason to keep an online dating profile active is simple: TO MEET NEW WOMEN. None of these appears condusive to long term happiness--or is it just me? He may not flirt but likes the idea that women are looking at him. He doesn’t understand that he’s in a committed relationship.5.He’s looking to meet or talk to women for some other reason… First, consider that perhaps he’s not as committed to your relationship as he says or you thought.