he too was a widower and lost his wife 6 months after my husband's death. 3 years ago I actually got engaged to a man (not the widower) and after living with him 1 month I broke it off. I am fine now and enjoying life with my 2 grown children and my grandson. I want the feelings of the love and relationship that I had.It was about a 1 before we took it to the next step. But have come to the conclusion I also want it a little different this time around. I hope i can find someone that was is as loving, fun and devoted. If you ever need someone to talk to that has been through all the emotional ups and downs of loosing someone you love drop me a line. The first two years are really the hardest, at least it was for me.Rather, it’s to 1) give you insight into the heart and mind of a widower so you can better understand his behavior and 2) help you decide for yourself if the widower you’re dating is ready to start a new life with you, or whether he’s just looking to fill the hole in his heart.As a widower who has since remarried, I’ve seen too many men (myself included) start dating before they’re emotionally ready to make serious commitments to the women they claim to love.The good news is that there are many widowers out there who are ready to make room in their heart for another person.
These and a thousand other questions go through your head. The purpose of this book isn’t to discourage you from dating a widower.I’ve also corresponded with hundreds of women who have fallen in love with men who claimed to be ready to move on but, in the end, were not.Most of these women could have avoided heartache if they’d been aware of the red flags.Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc. Last one I went on, five went down in front of me, seven behind. I suspect some widowers like to move on quickly b/c marriage showed them what bachelor life was like.Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... On the weekends, I do my household chores, shop, sometimes, I day ride. Some like "baching it", others like having a mom all over again.