He rushes me through sex so I’ll fall asleep afterward, and he can then log onto his chat sites. The whole truth is that there’s no reason a guy in a serious, monogamous relationship should EVER be visiting those sites unless the relationship is finished.
I know what he’s doing because I check his browser history. I don’t sleep because I know what he does when I go to sleep and I’m depressed by it. It’s just an outlet to relieve stress.” Am I wrong to be upset by this, to be losing sleep and feeling my self-esteem plummet? What I’m most concerned about is not so much what you’re currently dealing with, but about what must have happened to you in your past that makes the relationship you have now seem “great” in comparison, because, no, no, no. Nothing about what you describes indicates that there’s anything tolerable, let alone “great” about your relationship.
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Put it this way: I don’t go to Amazon to browse books. There IS a temptation, for both men and women, to try to continually “trade up”.
But the whole point of dating – for most of us, anyway – is to find one person that makes you want to quit altogether.